29 Jul 2003
For the first time in my life, I finally tasted a grapefruit. I was at the Kripalu Health Center eating breakfast with two hundred people in complete silence. We were focusing on eating consciously. As I peeled the grapefruit I noticed the mist and the fragrance long before taking my first mindful bite. I then became very aware of the texture as I tasted the tart juice oozing out. It was at that moment, I realized I was having an amazing experience of truly tasting a grapefruit for the first time. At Kripalu, one meal each day is eaten in silence. This creates an opportunity to practice conscious eating. To begin conscious eating, close your eyes and forget about the meal for a moment. Then take a few deep breathes and let your awareness flow over your body, relaxing any tension you may feel. When you do begin to eat, allow yourself to fully experience the taste, aroma and consistency of your food. Be mindful of where, how, and why, as well as what, you are really eating. Chew your food well in a relaxed and calm way without rushing on to the next bite. Take the time to get in touch with your hunger, don’t eat if you’re not hungry, and eat only enough to satisfy your hunger. When you feel the subtle “full” signal from your body, stop and sit quietly for a few moments to experience the feeling of contentedness. After practicing conscious eating for ten days I had several insights. First, I became aware that the degree to which I enjoy my meal depends on my mindfulness. When you’re truly hungry even the simplest foods become so satisfying. I also found that excessive noise, chatter or activity, are uncomfortable diversions to fully enjoying and tasting my meal. When I finished my meals I found myself feeling deeply satisfied, I didn't overeat, and I felt rejuvenated instead of sluggish. Do you ever finish a meal and wonder where it went? Did I even eat? How many times do I hear my children say "we haven’t had anything to eat all day" only to remind them of all the meals and snacks they have devoured throughout the day. Is meal time at your house survival of the fittest? Do you have a problem with over-eating? Do you eat so much the only solution is to sleep it off? Have you ever finished a meal and not felt satisfied, or left a meal feeling depleted instead of energized? It may be time to give conscious eating a try. We live in a multi-tasking society. It's hard for us to do something as simple as eating without trying to accomplish something else at the same time. Turn off the TV, put down the newspaper, get out of the car, stop chatting! Simply slow down and pay attention to the actual process of eating. Find a quiet, peaceful setting with minimal distractions. If you're away from home, try to find a local park. In a restaurant, choose a quiet location, where you can relax. It’s also a good idea to avoid eating when you are angry, excited, tense, depressed, sick, or hurried. Every day we have the opportunity to break the patterns of our past and experience the benefits of eating mindfully. Thich Nhat Hanh, a buddhist monk and Nobel Peace Prize nominee, has written several books on the practice of mindfulness. He says “eating mindfully is a most important practice of meditation. The present moment is filled with joy and happiness. If you are attentive, you will see it." Lori Chandler is a registered yoga instructor who teaches at Central Washington University and throughout Kittitas County. You may contact her at loriwchandler@hotmail.com
|